Neville Bartos wrote:mkhammer wrote:Always found it interesting,if that's the right word to use,why people are so Negative bout
Stuff....Fooball...Life in general...
We all get pissed off,even Angry at times,but some people get lost in it,and life becomes a trudge,
for them........don't know if this is Mr Numbers case....might be sat there having a giggle at it
all.....who knows...good luck to him,like I said interesting,not worrying,we're all different.
Take for instance...our new Boss....Happen to disagree with his present approach,team selections
set ups.......couldn't see it more differently,but come Saturday or when ever,I'm shouting and
jumping around for us to win.......my disagreeing with him goes out the window,thats for the
pub after...and on here...
You have to support the team whatever...be positive.
Just recently we had 2 threads running simultaneously...one was titled Positivity Thread the
other Negativity.....guess which one pissed all over the other for views and replies....
But that seems true in life,people seem to react to negative stuff more so than anything positive.
Whether that's Politics,a Famous sports star mouthing off,a Media story,or footie,the negative
will get more response,and coverage.
There's a difference between being negative and disagreeing as well....the difference is
when you disagree you put forward an alternate argument for your case,negativity is
.....Its Shit.......that's it...we're all doomed,and no constructive argument.
There's nothing wrong in disagreeing and a passionate heated discussion,don't really like
using the word argument in this to much,can be perceived to be a row,when your just
Can't beat a good debate...on whatever,especially politics,but the last thing you want is
people agreeing with you...that don't work,in fact the more they see things differently to
you the better,it's the way you learn...listen to other people.....
Then the art is then agreeing to disagree.
Everyone enjoys a good moan, it clears the pipes.
I've always thought there was something deeply wrong with being overtly positive all the time. My mate from Germany was always upbeat, turns out he's been fantasising about suicide and is now receiving psychiatric treatment.
Yeah mate agree,but some guys and girls,let it runaway with them,finding a happy balance for
yourself is the key.We all moan and whinge,that's life,but don't let it become a major factor,
in your day to day life,it has a spiral effect.
If something is wrong or your unhappy bout a situation,its way way better to focus on a way
of improving it, than keep on about how shit it is,one can resolve it,one will keep you in it.
But easier said than done at times admittedly,and so many different levels of it,from being
simply unhappy/pissed off, right thru to depression,that's why I'm saying bout the spiral effect.
Always good to talk bout stuff tho...like you say,let of some steam..
Seems possible your mate was Bi-Polar...hard to spot,that's why need to talk about things that
are giving you a problem.....(hope he's getting it sorted)